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Discovering Luxury in Slow Living: Embracing Dolce Far Niente and a life with new adventure

  • Writer: Marisa Folse
    Marisa Folse
  • 6 days ago
  • 3 min read

In a world that never seems to stop moving, the true luxury is taking a moment to pause. Embracing the art of doing nothing, or dolce far niente, can lead to profound joy. This Italian philosophy reminds us that slowing down isn’t just beneficial, it’s essential for discovering happiness, especially in our busy lives today.


Reflecting on my own journey, I cherish witnessing my sons grow into remarkable men. As a grandmother, I am excited about the new adventures that life presents. The lessons of slow living resonate deeply with me, especially as I embrace my new role within both my family and for myself.


The Philosophy of Dolce Far Niente


Dolce far niente, meaning “the sweetness of doing nothing,” encourages the enjoyment of life’s simple pleasures without the constant drum of productivity. This philosophy teaches that taking time for rest, relaxation, and being present is crucial for a fulfilling life.


By immersing myself in this practice, I find joy in simple activities such as an afternoon espresso or prosecco on my sunlit beach balcony in meditation or gently wandering through the sand and surf and feeling the sunshine on my skin. These moments nurture my spirit and spark creativity.


Reclaiming Time for New Adventures


With my children now grown, I have reclaimed a precious resource: time. The unrelenting demands of parenting have given way to opportunities for self-exploration. Whether it’s taking an Italian cooking class, exploring the music scene here on Galveston Island, or the treasure of watching my grandson during the week, each experience invites me to grow and fills my heart.


I recently planted an herb garden on my balcony, a skill of what can be grown in the salty and coastal air was something I longed to learn. I now enjoy the bounty of fresh herbs which have added something special to my meals and my cocktails, as well as my sense of accomplishment. This phase of my life is a blank canvas, and the freedom to explore bookstores, visit art galleries, and experiment with new recipes brings fresh excitement into each day.


The Joy of Freedom


One of the most exhilarating benefits of embracing a slower pace is the incredible sense of freedom it brings. I now have the luxury of connecting with nature and traveling without a strict itinerary. Weekends exploring Galveston like a tourist, either on the beach, the strand with its cobblestone streets and charming cafes, this island offers chances to immerse myself in history and beauty.


These little adventures make me realize that life's richness lies not only in destinations but also in the journey itself. Choosing how to spend my day, within the framework of dolce far niente, has introduced me to wonderful new friends and created cherished memories.


Embracing Simple Joys


In summary, embracing the philosophy of dolce far niente has reshaped my understanding of life and luxury. This approach has taught me that slowing down is not merely a pleasant idea; it is a transformative way of living that promotes personal growth and continuous exploration. As I observe my grandchildren's vibrant curiosity for the world around them, I am reminded that life should be cherished, experienced fully, and appreciated in every moment.


So, take a moment for yourself. Breathe deeply and recognize that luxury often resides in life’s uncomplicated joys—the pleasure of doing nothing and the delight of pursuing new adventures, that might be closer than you think.

 
 
 

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